Abby is doing very poorly. She’ll be in hospital several more days, minimum. She can’t eat. Her fever isn’t going down. She is swelling up with an allergic reaction to the antibiotics. She is in constant pain that is requiring a morphine drip just to keep her from constantly crying.
Please pray for Michelle as she cares for her at the hospital.
Tuesday, from Brent:
Abby is still pretty rock bottom. High fever, mouth/stomach/intestine sores from the toxic chemo… very painful. She is on a constant morphine drip, can hardly talk and is completely devoid of any body strength. She has constant tremors, is throwing up, and now has a urinal tract infection that is pretty serious and requiring additional, stronger antibiotics.
Michelle is stretched pretty thin. She is stuck in the hospital room and cannot leave Abby’s side while I shuffle back and forth to take care of the rest of the family. Please pray for Michelle. This is really hard on her to have to watch Abby suffer hour after hour.
Many thanks for all the kind prayers, and for the continued meals from our dear Christian brothers and sisters.
Wednesday, from Brent:
Abby is improving little, if any, at this point. I’ve got a severe migraine today (too many days with little sleep catches up to me this way), and an appt tomorrow for what appears to be a staph infection under my chin. We are both extremely tired, but God is good and we rejoice in the greater opportunity to see Him work, and take care of us.
My heart aches most for Michelle being stuck up at the hospital 24 hours a day, and for little Abby suffering so. I miss them both terribly.
Thank you for your kindness and prayers. You are a blessing and we are blessed to have such kind brethren.
Wednesday, from Michelle:
This has been without a doubt the hardest seven days for me, (Michelle) since this whole thing began. As all the parents know, it is very hard to see our children in pain and suffering. Abby has been in so much pain. Even though her doctors and nurses are trying to control it with hourly IV morphine, she has been having break though pain that needs to be treated with extra morphine and even that is not working well today. She has been crying both when she is awake and in her sleep.
There is so much going on with Abby right now that it is difficult to know where to begin. As most of you know, Abby was admitted to the hospital last Thursday because of a high fever. She is still in the hospital and will be here for a while longer. She has an elevated temperature and is on IV antibiotics. They identified pseudomonas in her bladder. This can be a dangerous and hard to treat microorganism.
Sunday, she developed mucositis. Her immune system is so low that the "good" bacteria that is supposed to live on your skin to project you is attacking the lining of her whole digestive tract. She has "canker" sores all inside her mouth, down her esophagus, in her intestines, and on her bottom. I knew that she was miserable, I just didn't know why until I learned how many sores she has. This is so hard for a little girl to handle.
Her doctors said that the only things that will heal the sores is for her WBC to build back up, so that they can heal her. She won't be able to do chemo until she is better. All they can do now is give her IV fluids, and pain medicine. They are giving her Morphine via a PCA pump. It gives her a dose of morphine every hour and then she can press a button to get an additional dose every 15 minutes. I didn't know how quickly she would understand the instructions, but she got it in under 3 seconds. She is holding on the the PCA button like it is her best friend.
Since Abby's immune system is suppressed because of the chemo, she is running a fever, and has all of those sores, we may be here a while this time. It is my understanding that her white blood cell counts have to return to a normal level, before she will begin to heal from this. They are working to keep her comfortable until then.
We would appreciate your prayers. Your prayers, comments and emails mean so much to us.
53 comments:
I just spent the night reading through your story and am so touched. Please know that you are all in my prayers...little Abby is such a trooper and fighter and no matter what she has touched so many lives in just the short time she has been here...your faith and strength are such a testimony to all. lifting you all up in prayer....
Kelsey
exodus 14:14
Always praying specifically for what is going on. WHat a hard test of faith, but keep holding on Michelle. (and the rest of you)
Heavenly Father, I beg of you to watch over this family, to help little Abby recover from the sores and all else that if failing her tired body. Please give strength to her parents that need it so.
Prayers..many prayers today! Hang in there!
Continued prayers for your WHOLE family. I hope that Abby gets her counts up soon and starts to heal.
I'm so sorry that she's having such a rough week. Praying that her pain subsides, her WBC count returns to normal, and that the sores heal. Thinking of all of you and keeping you in my prayers!
Phyllis
I am praying. I can't even begin to imagine what you are going through and what it is like to watch your baby hurt.
Michelle I am praying constantly for your family. I wish there was more that we could do! I know prayer is what you need the most though! I am praying daily for your family.
Love in Christ
Andrea
Poor Abby! I'm keeping her in my thoughts and hoping she improves soon.
Kerri, Medina, and Ruby
I am so sorry for the rough week you guys are having. Please know that we are out here praying and complete restoration for your baby. :(
dawn
We are still praying for healing. Blessings and hugs,
Elizabeth
I came across your blog a few weeks back and think of you and pray for you all the time. God give you continued strength and healing. He is holding your precious Abby in his arms and I pray she feels his comfort and receives relief soon.
Since he himself has gone through suffering and testing, he is able to help us when we are being tested.
~ Hebrews 2:18
Prayers for your whole family! Keep getting your strength from the Lord!
My heart groans in prayer for Abby and for you, Brent & Michelle. I found myself running out of words this morning except to pray, "Comfort and healing, Lord." Iknow that Christ is there in the hospital room and your home. He's holding Abby and sustaining you both. I wish we lived closer to help your family with errands, and chores, and meals, the stuff that still has to get done but is completely unimportant. Know that we pray for you every day and rejoice in what the Lord will do for His glory!
I don't even know what to say... my heart is breaking for you all and we're so far away... praying for you today and every single day. love you, fran and dave
I am not sure how I connected to your blog. Probably as I was looking at blogs from other families adopting from Ethiopia... I am a fellow Christian who has adopted both a little girl from China and a now have a 10 month little girl from Ethiopia.
Thank you for sharing your story. My prayers go out for you both, Abby (my oldest daughter is named Abbie), and the rest of your family.
May God's presence, love and care be very tangible at this time.
Warmly,
Kristine
My heart just breaks for what you are all going through, especially little Abby. I cry out to God on your behalf and pray for God's healing on her body. Praying for God's comfort and peace so Abby can break through this. Michelle I am praying for God's comfort for you as you watch your baby suffer. Praying God will give you strength as I am sure you are beyond tired right now. Praying for Brent as he tries to work, care for the kids at home and visit Abby in the hospital. Praying for the other kids that they will know God is in control and He is going to heal their sister and make her whole again. Praying that God takes away any fear they might have right now.
Finally praying that God will use your family to show His love and light while you are in the hospital. Let God use you to minister to those that have no hope like those of us who know Christ.
I am so sad to hear that Abby is having such a hard time. I will be praying for her and for your entire family.
That you for keeping us posted on you and your precious family! Abby is ALWAYS in my thoughts and Prayers...
Is it possible to give me your address?
Hugs,Leslie,Abby R.
I'm so sorry that things have gotten so rough for all of you. Your faith is amazing and I will continue to pray for strength for all of you.
I know too well the agony of watching someone you love suffer so much. I will pray that she gets some relief from these awful sores and that her WBC count will skyrocket soon.
Praying for you in MI.
Amy
Your family is in my prayers. I cannot believe what a little fighter you have! Abby will be ok and one day she will say, "I kicked cancer's butt!!"
Please let us know if you need ANYTHING!
I ran across your blog in early summer. We are adopting from Ethiopia and China. I have been following your journey. I pray for your family daily. God Bless you. Gina
Marielle wound up in hospital for 22 days during Delayed Intensification. She developed esophagitis, basically inflamation all along the inside of the esophagus. She wound up on TPN (fed through her broviac). It was a very difficult time, but she came through. I think sometimes it's nearly as hard on us parents, watching our little ones suffer and feeling very helpless.
I hope Abby is feeling better soon.
Marie
ALL-kids
www.caringbridge.org/visit/marielle
Michelle and Brent, I've been out of town for a while and just got on to check on how you're all doing. I have tears in my eyes for the suffering that sweet Abby is enduring. We will pray, pray, and pray some more. God Bless each and every one of you.
I am continuing to pray constantly for you ALL... for healing, strength, courage,wisdome, for all of your needs to be met, and for you to feel God's love and protection. My heart breaks because of the pain Abby is in and the pain your hearts must feel for watching your precious child hurt. We love you guys- Amy
No, no, no!!!! Im just so very sad for you all! I feel like traveling to where you are just to give you all a hug! Please know that Abbie is constantly in my prayers.
Your family is in my prayers.
Adria
(from the ALL list)
praying for your family...
Standing in the gap and praying, praying, praying for your family as you lean on the Great Physician.
I will be on my knees for your family today. I will be praying for the strength of your precious family and the pain to subside on sweet Abby. I can't imagine what your going through. May God continue to give you strength through this difficult time.
I am keeping you in steady prayer. I'm so sorry that you are going through this. I pray that Abby's sores will heal and that she will amaze the doctors in how fast this healing takes place. I pray that God embraces her all day long.
I will continue to pray for your whole family. I know you must be exhausted. I pray for supernatural strength both mentally and physically for all of you!
Stacey
Brent, Michelle and Family
I am so sorry for what you are going through. My heart aches for you. I so wish I was near you so I could help out.
We will be praying.
Michelle
my heart is aching over your pain and this illness... I am so sorry that this is happening to you all. many prayers and God's blessings over your family.
I am so saddened by the pain of this journey you are on. I pray that God brings comfort to Abby very soon and that we may all rejoice in God and that His glory will be shown in this situation.
Amy
Lord please comfort and bring your healing touch to Abby today. God bless this family, hold them in your arms and may this miracle be a testamony that shows your love to others. By the stripes of Jesus Abby is healed and whole, in Jesus Name.
I find myself heart broken for your family. I am praying comfort for sweet Abby. I am praying for strength and God's mercy for the entire family. There is so little for me to say, but my heart cries out for you!
Big hugs,
Heather
What a brave little girl and saying so incredibly many prayers for God to watch over this little angel and help her to heal. May God also help give all of you the strength and courage to get through yet another day.
Blessings, Rhonda
We are praying for healing for Abby and strength for the family.
We will intercede for her daily...
From a fellow adoptive mom.
I will continue to pray for Abby and your whole family. God's strength is shining through in your actions and in your words. He is faithful, and He will be with you all the while.
Praying for Abby!!!!
Continuing to pray for your family! You are on our hearts-Always,
Michelle Mann
I can't even fathom the struggle of watching your little one have to learn how to give herself a morphine drip. The thought of our babies needing to know that feels insane. I am so proud of all of you. I wish so deeply that I could help more but you are in my thoughts and prayers so often. Hugs, Angel
I'm so sad for your family. My heart is very heavy for your sweet Abby. I will definitely pray for her little body and for your family as you rely on God during this painful time.
The hardest thing for a parent to do is watch your child suffer...and no child should have to suffer like Abby is.
Praying for the strength and peace that only God can give...
From a fellow OKC adoptive mom...
God Bless,
Angie
I have no words....my heart is heavy for your suffering, for Abby's and I know that I know that God is in control even when we can't understand His plans. Tonight I am praying in NC for breakthrough and for comfort.
love,
Holly
What an incredible amount of strength people can summon in the face of a challenge. Your strength is incredible. Thank you for sharing your story and allowing all of us in the blogosphere to stand behind your family as Abby fights this battle.
Many hugs!
Jesi
We are so sorry abby your in so much pain... sending hugs across the sky to you....and prayers to heaven...the serio's
ohh Riggs! I am praying praying praying like crazy that Abby is not in so much pain! I am so sorry for all of this. I am praying for the whole family. Michelle! I am praying u are holding up. love
Julie
My thoughts and prayers are with you and Abby!
Oh my gosh, this is so much to endure. Please know we are praying for you as well. Praying for peace that passes all understanding and strength that you never knew you had.
As I read your post, I found myself crying out to God for you and Abby.
I am praying for restful and healing days for Abby.
Michelle and Brent, I am praying for you as parents. This is a horrible time for you but I am praying God will give you more strength than you could ever imagine or hope for.
sending hugs & prayers from Norway
Michelle and Brent,
I am praying for you with all of my strength. You are such truly wonderful people and I pray for your strength right now. I know God is holding Abby closely and she will be better soon.
Megan
I am so sad for abby and your whole family. My heart breaks for you all. I cant stand to think of that sweet little baby in so much pain. We just got back from vacation and I am catching up. Your faith thru all of this is so wonderful. Know that you are all in our prayers (((hugs))) Maria
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