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Oct 6, 2008

Thank you All God's Children, Update and Prayer Requests

The last few weeks were very hard on Abby. Our great agency, All God's Children http://www.allgodschildren.org/ , sent her a beautiful bouquet of flowers. They made her feel so special. She was so weak when we took this picture, but she truly loved them. I saw her many times during the last few days smelling them and touching them, with the sweetest smile on her face. Thank you all for thinking of Abby. You have been so wonderful about checking on her and praying for her. Thank you. You guys are the best.



Many people ask us us how Abby is REALLY doing. While we are honest about how things are going, it is sometimes hard to know how much information people want to read. Abby is doing much better than she was a few weeks ago, but she is still healing from the last round of chemo.

We are praising God for:

  • Healing her liver. Her liver enzymes were up to 30 times greater than normal and now they are normal for a HEALTHY child. Chemo can damage her liver, so we are still praying for protection, while we are praising God.

  • Abby is still in remission.
  • Abby's sores are healing and no longer painful.
  • Abby is still happy girl who loves to play and laugh.
Unfortunately, today Abby is beginning the next round of chemo. This round is a repeat of the last round of chemo, and it was VERY hard on her little body. The plan is for her to get chemo 4 days this week, 4 days next week and then only one day a week for the next 2 weeks. We have learned that while the weeks with only one chemo day are easier on us time wise, the drug they will give Abby is the very hardest on her. It causes severe leg pain and muscle weakness.

We are already 2 weeks late starting this series of chemo. She will begin the round at least 25% weaker and 5 pounds lighter than she was at the beginning last time. The nausea is taking its toil. Her sores still have not completely healed.

Would you join us in praying for:


  • Abby to regain the weight she lost, so her body will be better prepared to fight the cancer.
  • For the pain to be less or at least better controlled.
  • For her not to run a temperature or be admitted to the hospital. She will be getting the medicine, that caused fevers, 8 times in the next 2 weeks.
  • I am asking for her doctors to allow me to give Abby chemo at home any time that she will not be seeing a doctor or having labs done. This would save us 2-3 trips to the hospital's clinic on our tough weeks. Have I told you all that I am an RN? :-) Truly any parent can learn to do it.
  • For Sami to get permission to come with us to Abby's oncology clinic visits. She has to test negative for staph several times before she will be allowed to come. I am glad that they are careful, but we miss her.
Abby cooking with Mommy. I love seeing her smile again.

Sami at her doctor's appointment. I can't wait to go somewhere

besides doctor's offices.

Sami is growing up too fast. She is going to be an incredible woman some day.



19 comments:

The Gresham Clan said...

I am lifting all of these things up in prayer right now! Praise God for your reliance on Him and for your precious Abby! She is TRULY AMAZING!! "God thank you for this beautiful child. Give her the strength, courage and endurance she needs to get through this. Be there by her side and continually reassure her. We love you God and give you praise for Abby and all of her family. Amen."

I will continue!!

Kristin

melissa said...

praying for your beautiful daughter....

Kerri said...

Glad Abby is doing better. Hoping she does better this time around and that Sami is soon allowed to be at her appointments again.
Kerri, Medina, and Ruby

steffenboysmom said...

Beautiful pics of beautiful girls! So happy that God answers prayers this way! We will remember Abby as she begins more chemo!

waitingarms said...

I am thanking God for the smile on Abby's face!

We started on our adoption journey with just the thought of adopting a child, but along the way, I have "met" remarkable people on the blogsphere like your family. Your life story is increasing my faith, and truly transforming my prayer life! Your family is constantly in my thoughts and prayers. It is amazing how deep my prayers have gotten, now that I am consumed with concern for others. It is even transforming my four year old's prayer life--he normally prays for people he knows and all his trains! Now he remembers little Abby in his prayers because he hears mommy and daddy pray for Abby. Thank you for your shining example of what it truly means to walk the Christian walk.

We are praying for Abby to put on those pounds, a much easier time with the chemo rounds, and complete healing for both Abby and Sami. We are also praying for your whole family's strength and endurance as the Great Physician works His healing.

XOXOXOXO.

Pam said...

my heart aches for you all as you head back into this known territory. may God's grace blow your minds... much love and prayers your way...

Sunday said...

Continuing to pray for Abby! I miss talking to you, Michelle! Sami's pictures are so beautiful...she looks so mature! :) xxoo Sunday

Paul and DeeDee said...

Praying for your whole family! I think about you guys all the time, if there is something we can do for you please let me know. I'm not sure of what would else help but please know we are praying constantly for Abby:)

April said...

Praying and lifting you and Abby up in prayer, may God heal her, I will pray this daily until God heals her!!!

Rhonda said...

Thank you for sharing the information as we have been saying very special prayers for God to heal this special little girl. May she withstand this next round with God's love and protection all around her.
Blessings, Rhonda

shauna said...

Hi Michelle -- You don't know me but I'm new to the AGCI world and just received my homestudy and adoption planner binders this weekend... but I have seen your family's link on many other blogs so I thought I'd check it out. I'm so sorry to learn about Abby... it sounds like she's a real trooper though. I am a pediatric hem/onc nurse... and I know you've probably got a strong hem/onc team surrounding you... but I just wanted to throw out if you had any questions or concerns... please feel free to ask me.
I hope this next round is a little easier on Abby.
Take care.
Shauna

nikki said...

Praying for yours and Abbys strength going into this round of chemo. Abby smile is so sweet and you can see the strength in her eyes.
May God hold you all tight these next few weeks!!!

Our journey said...

Michelle, thank you for always taking the time to update us about Abby. I truly appreciate the specific prayers that I can bring to God. May He continue to have His hands in Abby's treatment and recovery.

The Engelhardt 4 said...

I am praying for all that you have asked for. Sending hugs all to all of you!!

Anonymous said...

You don't me, but I have been following your blog for a while...it just touches my heart. I brought my daughter home in April and can't imagine how tough it is to watch your daughter go thru such a process. Your faith amazes me. I say a prayer for your family eacn and every time I visit your blog.

Best wishes
Karon Criswell

Maria and Family said...

I am praying. So nice to see AGCI sent Abby flowers! That is sweet. I LOVE the picture of Sami ..what a beautiful child she is :) Maria

Jill said...

Michelle and Brent,

Thank you for the update and praising God for others who consistantly shower you with tangible love being His hands and feet for your family!

Know that we are thinking of you and praying right along with you as Abby undergoes this next round of chemo!

Love and blessings,
Jill

Alicia said...

Our family is praying for God's perfect healing of Abby's precious little body. For her family we are asking for strength and endurance.

May the angels God has entrusted to Abby surround her little body and allow her to make it through the next couple of weeks without much toll.

Our love and prayers to your family.

Charles, Alicia and Jacob McDuffie

Holly said...

I totally LOVE AGCI! They are the best.
Michelle, I know God is at work here. I don't know what He is doing, but He loves you guys with an everlasting love and He is doing something!
Sami is so beautiful- what amazing changes in her since she became a Riggs!
Sending hugs from North Carolina,
Holly