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Dec 23, 2008

Riggs: important update on Abby - Dec. 23rd...


(For new readers, our daughter, Abby, three years old, adopted from Guatemala, was diagnosed with Leukemia in July this year).



We thought Abby maybe had a stroke last week; MRI's were negative; she has recovered from the strange symptoms.


Update on Abby...

We got a call late last week that our Doctor wanted to consult with us. Never good... Here's the short version about this latest development with Abby:
  • 8% of the population has a specific genetic variation...
  • That variation is NOT a factor in getting Leukemia...
  • However, if you get Leukemia and you have that variation, you are FOUR TIMES more likely to die during the first year of treatment from complications or relapse.
One effect of this gene variation is increased toxicity from specific drugs. Our doctor is going to help us monitor this particular aspect so that we can keep those complications to a minimum.

Our kind Doctor said it was "not a death sentence, but no, not good news". I asked her if that took Abby from her previous 70% chance of survival down to around 20 or 30% and she replied "it's hard to put a number to it..." but did not offer another figure.

For the next couple of weeks, Abby is in “interim maintenance” an easier period of chemo, which is kind of laughable if you saw how many drugs and chemo she is still getting. On Jan 16, she begins “delayed intensification” which is the hardest part of her entire treatment. Given today’s news, you can guess how much this 60 day period concerns us since we almost lost her a couple of times already in lesser intensity therapy periods.

We are already planning to get some help during those two months of “delayed intensification” because based on history, we will probably be in the hospital the majority of the time dealing with significant complications. Would you:

  • Please pray for us to have wisdom, strength and health to take care of Abby Put Abby on any prayer lists or groups and prayer for her healing
  • Pray that God will be glorified no matter what the outcome
  • Pray that God will make provision for the increased needs and expenses coming up
We know that God can safeguard Abby no matter what – four times, ten times, a hundred times “more likely…” whatever. God is bigger than genetics, cancer or any other difficulty we face.

We also know that Abby is in a win/win situation: she wins if we get to keep her here; she wins if she gets to go be with God and wait for us there. However, it goes without saying that we would be unspeakably sad to have to let her go, so we pray for her healing, and ask you to do the same.

Looks like Abby gets to be home for Christmas, and that is WONDERFUL. She went to see Christmas lights last night, and will get to see them again tomorrow night. Our wonderful friends, Carol and Scott, are picking up our three little ones in a LIMO and taking them to see Christmas lights! We have received Christmas gifts for the children from Scott’s office and co-workers. Carol and Scott have just been SO kind and generous to us. We are so thankful for them. They have really gone above and beyond to be a blessing to us.

We also received Christmas gifts for the kids from our wonderful church family, who also continue to bring us meals and help us however they can. We are truly blessed with incredible friends and Christian family. Our own families of course have done much for us too during this difficult time. We could go on and on about people reaching out to help care for Abby. One particular friend, J.N., knows how deeply grateful we are to him. He’s not about getting public praise, but he has been a life changing blessing to us.

If you have any questions, leave a comment, and we will be glad to respond. Thank you for your prayers. We pray that no matter what happens, everyone will see God clearer and be drawn to Him. God hasn’t gone to sleep, He’s not busy somewhere else. He cares for every tiny little re-growing hair on Abby’s head, and every missing hair on my head.

Our faith is unshaken, and God has already been more than glorified through our trial.

Blessings,
Brent (and Michelle)
www.brentriggs.com
www.riggsfamilyblog.com

Abby recovered from the weird symptoms
and gets to be home for Christmas

49 comments:

Anonymous said...

Hi. I have been reading your blog the past month and words cannot describe how touched I am with your family's faith and love. I have two cousins who had leukimia (one made it and one did not) but we still glorify GOD for both outcomes. Abby may be feeling really really sick physically but I really do believe that GOD will not let her suffer more than what she can handle. From her photos, she is very beautiful, with or without hair. Please know that I am praying for comfort for your beautiful daughter and strength for your family. Take care!

jajbs said...

I will continue to pray for Abby and the rest of your family. May God give you wisdom and strength.

amanda

Tara said...

Oh...I just can't even fathom all that you have been through and all that you are going to go through. My heart goes out to you as well as daily prayers for you, your family and especially Abby. Enjoy this Christmas, for today is a blessing. I am doing the same.... you are constantly in my thoughts.

May God bless you and your family this holiday season.
Tara

Kathyb1960 said...

Well, I'm praying for her, and I'm praying for a Christmas MIRACLE!!! I know, believe, and pray that she will be totally and completely healed! So the devil can put that in his pipe and smoke it! LOL And he's under our feet anyway, so tell her to just stomp on him!

I hope ya'll have a very Merry Christmas! God is GOOOOOD!!!

Kathy

Amy said...

Oh my precious friends... I do not even know what to say. I could tell you that I will be praying, but you already know that. I could tell you that I love you guys- but you already know that too. So I will just say thank you for your friendship, thank you for your beautiful hearts and your amazing faith. And thank you for doing all that you can for Abby and trusting our God with the rest. Watching you walk this journey gives me a hope beyond words. Hug those beautiful children of yours and may you all rest in Him. Love you- Amy

Alex and Sam said...

michelle,
your strength is truely inspiring.. youe family is in my thoughts & prayers. may you have peace this holiday season & hoping for good news on Abby..


alex

Sarah said...

my heart hurts for little abby. i will continue praying for her, especially during the rough waters ahead. i have to say your faith is humbling. i lost a child during pregnancy almost a year ago, and i have to be honest and say that i was mad at God for a time. of course our relationship has recovered:) i am just in awe of yours and very much admire your closeness with Him.
sarah
btw, we're adopting from ethiopia:)

Carrie S said...

I am trying to hold back tears here at work, and I will pray for you non stop. God bless your Christmas together and I pray for strength and comfort for you all.

Kerri said...

Sending healing thoughts your way...

LaVon Baker said...

We are praying. Abby is the first on this list of prayer requests every Tuesday and the readership is big. Jan's post today is encouraging. http://jt-jantom.blogspot.com/2008/12/come-to-jesus-and-pray_23.html

7whartons said...

Our family wants you to know we are praying diligently for you all. All five of our children (2 of which are adopted) have prayer lists taped to their beds and have Abby's name there. You are an incredible source of encouragement to us...thank you! God bless you! In Christian Love, The Whartons

"For I know the plans I have for you", declares the Lord, "plans to prosper and not harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." Jeremiah 29:11

Andrea said...

You are all in my prayers!!!

Stacey Tate said...

Continued prayer for you all! I praise God that Abby will be home with her family for Christmas. What a wonderful gift!!! Stacey

Madelyn's Mommy said...

I am searching for words to put on here hoping that I can say something to comfort you. Please know that my heart is broken for you and Abby.

I am printing this post out and will specifically pray for your request on a daily basis.

I love your family and little Abby and it is a honor to go before God for Abby.

Love in Christ
Andrea

Darlene said...

I weep with you this morning,but not as one without Hope. And we continue to pray. Your faith... your words of faith about our loving God, bring me hope this morning. We will continue to pray for all that you have asked.
For Healing for Abby,
Darlene, Matt, Caleb and Christian

annb said...

I can't even imagine what you're going through now with this news. I will continue to pray and will send prayer requests out to everyone I know, as well as linking to your post. Words escape me and I just want you to know that I am praying now.
In His Love and Blessings,
annb

Christina said...

Sending HUGE prayers your way.

Jamie said...

I am SO very sorry and sad to hear these recent developments. I will continue to pray for your sweet daughter, and your entire family.
God Bless you.

Sarah said...

Christmas is the season of miracles and I pray that Abby is blessed with one of her own. Sweet, beautiful girl... glad she is home to enjoy her family!

Winona said...

I will definitely keep her and all of you in my prayers.
Colloidal silver...Gods natural cure. I use it, my family uses it, and we sent some to a boy in the neighboring town and his family uses it and he went into remission. Please research it!
My son had cancer 4 years ago, he used the colloidal silver along with the chemo. He'd never go through chemo again, he'd rely solely on the colloidal silver.
Speak with a homeopathic dr. They will lead you to proper care without mainstream medical. Do you know that all medical colleges are owned by the pharmaceutical companies? They have a cure for cancer, but they don't make money by healing you. Always follow the line up the corruption trail of money. At the top, you won't find God, but the fat pork barrel.
I pray you read my words and talk to God about it. He leads, it's up to us to listen. I pray for you all.
Love,
Winona

Robyn said...

Sending up lots of prayers for Abby and your entire family!

Debbie T said...

Michelle,
My heart hurts to read this latest news. My thoughts and prayers are with Abby and all of you every day. She is one tough cookie! Your faith continues to inspire me. Abby and your family are on our prayer chain at church. Hang in there Riggs bunch. Hugs, DebbieT

Sandy at God Speaks Today said...

Just want you to know I am still praying. I know the next month or two will be especially difficult.

He holds you in the palm of His hand.

Peace and Comfort to you...

Sandy

Recovering Noah said...

Oh, Michelle. We are praying SO hard for you and Abby and your family. I cannot even begin to imagine what you're going through.

I don't know how to ask this, and I hope it's okay, but would you mind sharing the gene variation that Abby has? I don't even know what I'm asking.... but I'm wondering if Noah has the same variation. He gets so sick on any sort of medication - especially anything that is sulpha based. I hope you don't mind me asking.

Hope you have a wonderful Christmas - and I'm so happy that Abby will be home to enjoy it with you all.

Leslie

Sunday said...

Brent and Michelle,

Thank you for keeping us updated on Abby. I am praying for her and know that God is sovereign in all of this. I pray that your Christmas if filled with many joys and that Abby remains content and pain-free. Love you guys!

--Sunday

Valerie said...

You're right -- God has been glorified so much through this. If only all the rest of us in the world would humble ourselves and allow HIm to be so glorified in our own minor trials and tribulations. You all have been such a testament. I will continue to pray for Abby's healing, for strength for your family, and for God's glory to continue (which, of course, it will). And just know that our Sunday School class will be standing in the gap for you all as well.

Valerie (Henry's mom)

Bill said...

Brent and Michelle, I have been following your blog about Abby for a couple of months now, and she is in my daily prayers. I know that the latest news from the doctor was difficult to hear, but I truly believe you are right - God is bigger than statistics, and Abby IS in a win/win situation. However, with three kids of my own (our daughter is from China), I also know that you want her to remain with you for as long as possible. Your family will remain in my prayers, and I will add you to my church's prayer list. Please know that you have many people praying for Abby's health and strength for your whole family. Wendy in Fredericksburg, VA

The Gresham Clan said...

I will continue to pray for your precious Abby and the upcoming trials for your entire family (it breaks my heart that this will only get harder). Thank you for sharing so openly and allowing God to reveal himself through your incredible family. Thank you for the specific ways we can pray as well! Merry Christmas to you all!

Keith and Kris said...

I cannot find the words to convey how I feel, and I wish I could say something perfect. I am so happy that you have this Christmas together, and pray that there are many, many more. Abby and all of you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Kris

Leslie said...

Praying for you!

Merry Christmas,leslie

Clif said...

I believe in the power of prayer and I just want you to know that I, along with all these others, will be praying for Abby and your family.

Carrie said...

Sending you all the prayers and love in the world!

Brian and Autumn said...

Riggs Family,
You continue to be in our thoughts and prayers during this holiday season. We are praying for peace, healing and comfort for all.
Autumn

Holly said...

In prayer for sweet Abby....
Holly

Mommy, Momma, Mom and sometimes Babe :) said...

NOTHING is too difficult for The Great Physician and Creator of the Universe and of Abby. Praying and pleading with God on Abby's behalf!
Sharon

Jill said...

Brent and Michelle,

Your faith is an incredible inspiration to all of us who are blessed to read your blog and know about your family!

We will be praying for Abby and each of your requests.

I pray that your Christmas will be filled with wonderful memories of her well and rejoicing in His goodness and love for each of you!

Praising Him for all that He has done through this trial already and thanking Him for what is yet to come!

Love and blessings - Jill

Joanna said...

Abby is such a fighter, and I love her from the bottom of my heart. She has touched all our lives, and has given us a great appreciation for life. I will continue to pray for Abby and your family. Many blessings...

With Love,
Joanna

ManyBlessings said...

I am completely at a loss for words.

Please know that our family is praying for your precious Abby.

And for you too.

Your faith is humbling.

dawn

Mike & Sharon said...

Brent and Michelle, I can't begin to explain the love I feel for your family. You have mentored me in ways I can't describe, and I want you to know that you are now on the church prayer lists for 38 churches in New England--and we're not done yet. Prayer is our most powerful weapon, and even though I feel like my prayers are so weak in comparison with Abby's strength, I know that that's the most beneficial thing I can do for her.

Emily said...

Praying for your whole family. May God give you whatever is needed to get to the next moment.
Emily N.
(an AGCI family)

waitingarms said...

My heart aches for you as you walk through this tough journey. I am praying for Abby's healing, strength and endurance for the whole family and for financial provisions so that all your needs are met. Is there a way for the body of Christ to be a financial blessing to you? Paypal? Western Union?

Jocelyn said...

I am so happy that Abby is going to be home for Christmas...may your family have a wonderful holiday together. Praying for her daily.

Joshua said...

Praise you God for letting Abby go home to see her family:) We will continue to pray for all of you.

Shelly said...

I wanted to let you know that I"ve been reading Abby's story for quite some time and haven't commented because I just don't have any words. Your family's faith is such an encouragement, and I have thought of Abby often and prayed for her. I also have a young daughter, who is 2, so your story hits hard. I will continue to pray for Abby and you all. Our sovereign Lord is kind, wise, and our healer. Continue to hold fast to His promises!

Deborah Welch said...

Praying for healing and protection for Abby this week.

Passing a long the word to friends and of course the Team in Training gang with LLS. You pastor, Mark, did our mission moment this past weekend at training. We dedicated the training to Abby. You guys are in our thoughts and prayers.

Abby truly is a hero!

Deborah Welch
Team in Training

Rhonda said...

my heart so goes out to you and your family. You already know your family is in our prayers every day. Praying that Bella gets major strength from our Lord God and may he help and guide the doctors in their treatment. Wishing you and your family a very Merry Christmas. Blessings,

Dimples and Stars Race Cars and Guitars said...

You know my HEART sank to the pit of my tummy...reading this post. I am glad you finally have answers to all the weird stuff that has been happening to Abby....but I don't like the info you found out...I can only imagine...how every moment you have with Abby this Christmas....you will savor. We love you all...and If I can Help in JAN let me know. We have lunch with the Princess tomorrow...so tell Miss Abby...I am going to have Kya give them an extra HUG just for her....OH I got to see Steven Curtis Chapman read the Christmas Story tonight....and WOW it was so special. He still seems so very sad...We were on the front row with another adoptive family that had two girls from China....when he spotted us he got the biggest grin on his face....it was pretty cool! Love ya

Hannah said...

Our family will keep Abby in our prayers. I am glad she is home for Christmas and will continue to have faith in the Lord that he has already healed her.

Vanessa said...

Praying for you all!! I have no words to offer you and I'm sorry but I'm at a loss for words!! HUGS and prayers coming your way!