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Mar 4, 2009

Storms & Fear... Abby Update Coming

(Note: Busy day with Abby... we'll try to get and update and pics later tonight if Michelle can get it to me. She is feeling better. Abby isn't.)

From Brent:

Psalm 46:1 - God is our refuge and strength, A very present help in trouble. (NKJV)

I live in Oklahoma where tornadoes, not hurricanes or earthquakes, make life an adventure. The impact point of a tornado is usually more destructive than a hurricane, but of course, the area affected is microscopic comparatively and the chances of getting hit by a tornado are pretty slim (though that's no consolation to those who have!).

I lived in Florida for a few years and experienced a couple of hurricanes (just the edge of them thankfully!). Unlike a tornado, hurricanes can cover the entire state at one time. You usually have fair warning its coming, and the damage is not as violent and severe on average as that from a direct tornado strike. Still, the deluge of water and reversing winds of a hurricane can destroy everything in its path.

Life's problems are like tornadoes and hurricanes...
some you see coming, some strike without notice.
Both can be devastating.

Some problems we face are unexpected, tightly focused, extremely intense and cause violent damage to specific areas of our life. The "tornado" trials of life are unpredictable and sudden... like losing your job without prior notice, becoming badly injured in an accident or losing a family member unexpectedly.

The hurricane problems of life can be seen coming on the horizon and while we may have warning, their power and scope can overwhelm us. These storms might come in the form of wayward children, recurring health problems, divorce, bad economies or a slow acting disease.

Therefore we will not fear...

Psalms 46 says "therefore we will not fear.." and that God is present to help us in times of trouble. What kind of trouble? Is it just the general daily problems of life? Are we to have no fear when we find out we have cancer? When the stock market crashes and our life savings is wiped out? When our child dies in an accident? When our house burns down? Can the writer of Psalms 46 have all that in mind when he says "therefore we will not fear"?

  • v.2 - ...Even though the earth be removed, And though the mountains be carried into the midst of the sea;

    Each of the events described in Psalms 46 can be thought of in both a physical and an emotional sense. So whether it is an actual natural disaster, or a personal upheaval, the writer of Psalms had the most extreme circumstances in mind.

    Has your whole world been rocked by personal tragedy? Does it feel like the foundations of your life have broken loose and slid off into the depths of the hopelessness? When your personal "earth" is shaken, it can be every bit as damaging as an actual natural disaster.

Therefore we will not fear...

  • v. 3 - Though its waters roar and be troubled, Though the mountains shake with its swelling.

    Have you ever seen a raging river or the sea whipped up by an approaching storm? It is both mesmerizing and terribly dangerous. Life's troubles can be that way sometimes. Our world can seem to roar and foment with problems and challenges. Life can get so tough sometimes that we feel shaken loose and swept away, helpless to do anything about it.

Therefore we will not fear...

Does the Psalmist leave us hanging with that? Does the Lord tell us not to fear then fail to tell us how that is accomplished? Of course not. How do we "not fear"?

Be still and know that I am God.

What does that mean? It means to be still and know that God is God. Boy, we sure try to complicate things!

When you are in the midst of the storm, when life is shaking beneath your feet, when it seems at any moment the foundations of your life are about to be torn loose and destroyed... be still and know that God is your very present help in your time of trouble.

We can't get our minds off of ourselves until we are still.

If we are trying to outrun the storm, we can't stop and know God. If we are scurrying around to tell everyone about our troubles, we can't know God. If we are busy trying to fix everything, and get life back to "normal", we can't know God.

All of our personal efforts to weather the turmoil of life without God are fruitless. Only when we become still and turn our eyes upon God, will the fear subside.

Fear is the result of trusting or gazing at anything but God.

Is there a hurricane on the horizon of your life? Can you see a monstrous, unavoidable, devastating storm bearing down on you? Divorce, terminal illness, money problems, straying kids? Do not fear. Be still, get your focus on God and know Him.

Have you been through an unexpected "tornado"? An accident? Death in the family? Sudden loss of a job or finances? Unfaithful spouse? Do not fear. Be still, get your eyes on God and off your self.

No matter what life is throwing at you, there is one answer to it: turn to God. Get your eyes off the problem, off your self and off other people. Be still. Know God. Focus on God. He is very present in your time of need. And therefore, you will not fear...

16 comments:

annb said...

What a wonderful post! This is so true in my life! When I am faced with trials, I try to "fix" it all myself - even though I know that can't happen. I am totally dependent upon God's mercy, forgiveness and guidance to have peace in my life. I sometimes forget!

Pam D said...

Saw your post on MckMama's site and came here to pray for Abby... praying that you will rest in the shadow of His wings.. and that you will feel the angels that surround you, lifting you up when you don't have the strength. May God cover Abby with His mighty, yet gentle hands...

Our Family said...

I can definately relate to this,and you are right we have to be still and let God be God ,and give him control,Praying for your sweet Abby,Gidget
www.fantasticfenwickfamily.blogspot.com

Anonymous said...

Thank you Brent for the reminder of focusing on God and not our problem to alleviate our fears. My pastor just preached on the same thing recently. I need to hear it regularly.

Praying for your precious girl.

Shannon said...

Wow...truly what I needed at this very moment on this very day. Thank you for being the willing vessel to share!

Cathy Meister Melton said...

What a perfect post for this day! I have been "working on trusting" all day when I what I need to do is just "be still". Thanks.

Kelli said...

I probably relate to this blog entry more than any other one you have written so far. I either have or currently am experiencing every trial that you just listed with the exception of wayward children. Unfaithful spouse and divorce, serious illness, chronic disease, loss of job, permanent injury from an accident, rock bottom finances, and have lost many, many loved ones. I've even experienced the literal storms...Frederick, Elena, Georges, Ivan, Katrina, and others. I have lost much. But by the grace and mercy of God, I have yet to lose my sanity (I realize I've left myself wide open for jokes here, but I digress...) :)

I've come so close, though...so close to the destruction that the devil intended for me...but God is faithful even when I'm not, and when we can't walk on our own, He carries us. Fear is as real, consuming, and devastating as any hurricane. But even in our fear, despair, or suffering...God is still on the throne. "When you go through the sea, I am with you. When you go through rivers, they will not sweep you away. When you walk through fire, you will not be burned, and the flames will not harm you." Isaiah 43:2

May we constantly seek Him at all times, the good and bad, and trust Him to carry us when we can't carry ourselves. When our boat is taking on more water than it can handle, we can step out on to the raging sea, and praise the Lord...He will not let us drown.

emily said...

Such truth that has carried us through a few dark days. Thank you!

Anonymous said...

Brent, everything you said, each paragraph you wrote, was for me. It was like you knew about my life and the problems i am trying to deal with, ONLY GOD !! It was like i needed to be reminded of what i know...AND TO LISTEN.. When we go through these storms, it is devasting, but we do need to focus on God, and not ourselves and make a mess of it trying to work it all out, we can't, ONLY GOD!! Thank you for the kind encouraging words tonight, opened my eyes up more for sure... I am so glad i came back to your site before i went to bed (wanting to check on our little Abby). I am sorry things are as bad as they are for her tonight, still praying and believing that God has a plan for dear sweet Abby. God bless your family. I keep your family on my heart and in prayer.

Holly said...

Praise God! I love Him, and I love you in Christ and the witness you are for Him on your blogs! Of course we continue to pray for sweet Abby. I'm glad Michelle is feeling better. I was praying for her too. There's only so much a mom can take.

Lisa said...

Beautiful post. I needed that.

Sara said...

WOW!!!!

fmattso said...

Thank you so much for htis post! I rally needed reminded to let God be God. I just finished reading a book called Idol Eyes by Mandisa. If you don't know who she is she is an amazing Christian singer who was on American Idol! Her story is amazing. I had the honor of seeing her in person at Chapel at my husbands work at Christmas.... WOW!! She has a song called God Speaking that is amazing. It had Chapel in tears! I have it on my blog and I will post the words! It is one of my favorite songs! Still praying for Abby and the family! Thanks for keeping us updated! BTW thanks for praying for my job interview! I have no idea if I got the job or not. It was literally a 2 minute interview that I drove 35 minutes to get to! The guy didn't even know he was doing interviews today! Oh well God knows the plan he has for me! I just need to get out of the way!

Sweet Joni said...

And therefore all answers are in the Bible... Leviticus 19:4
" 'Do not turn to idols or make gods of cast metal for yourselves. I am the LORD your God....
AMEN! :)
Just thought I'd share my past (God's) answer to someone's question.
Thank You for the Great Simplisity of Sharing God's Word to our brethern :)

The Amazing Trips said...

What a beautiful post. I am praying for your little girl and I know God is listening.

Last week, my dear friend who is battling lymphoma (who my husband and I are running a marathon in honor of) was told to contact Hospice because she only had a matter of weeks left to live. But now, THIS WEEK, a new round of chemo appears to be working.

WHY? I'm convinced it's because she has people from around the world PRAYING for her. God is hearing prayers in all different types of languages.

As I mentioned, my husband and I are running a marathon in honor of our friend, and in the process - we are raising money for The Leukemia & Lymphoma Society. In the past four weeks, we have raised almost $7K for cancer research.

I have been hosting contests on my blog each week to help with those efforts. In return for a 100% tax deductible donation, people can enter to win some great prizes. There is one contest up that will end next week, and another new contest that will be started this Friday. I'd love it if you'd drop by!


Until then, lots of prayers and warm thoughts for your precious Abby.

- Jen
Mom to 4-year-old triplets William, Elizabeth & Carolyn
& One-year-old toddler, Henry David

Marielle said...

Thank you so much for this post, it is just what I needed