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Apr 14, 2009

Abby Update Hair Watch

From Michelle:

We have been fighting this disease for 9 months. Running hard. Taking each day as it comes. Some families keep running stats on things like number of hospital stays, number of shots and number of blood transfusions. Because of the intensity of Abby's battle, we have lost track of a lot of the details.

Today we learned Abby has had 43 blood transfusions since July. 43! An adult only has 8 units of blood in their bodies and Abby, my 30 pound daughter has need 43 different transfusions. That blows me away.

We are forever thankful to the people who have taken time, out of their busy lives, to donate blood. You have saved her life and we will always be grateful.

A special thanks to Garrett's (our 16 year old son) Boy Scout troop and our church for doing blood drives to help Abby.

Update on Abby:

Abby's is doing the best she has done since this whole thing began. She has given up naps and taken to running through our home chasing Landis and Sami. Her smile is back and our home is filled with the laughter of children. We are truly blessed.

Abby still needs chemo for 2 more years, and we are not taking that lightly. As both a reminder, and something to celebrate when finished, you'll notice our Abby countdown clock up in the right hand colum of our blog. We are celebrating each and every victory, no matter how small. Abby is no longer using her feeding tube for nutrition and I only put medication down it if she is asleep. She is eating VERY healthy food and in bigger quantities than Landis. Landis has been known to eat more than many adults, so besting him at an eating contest is quite a feat.

Abby still has her gastric tube, but we are hoping to remove it soon. Abby still has pain in her legs, from the chemo, but they are controlling it well. Her headaches are gone and the wound on her abdomen no longer hurts and is healing nicely. God is good.

Last week Abby's white blood cell count was low enough to prove the chemoe is fighting her cancer, but high enough to get to go out in public. To date she has gone to Sunday School, the mall and even out to eat. She has played with friends and gone to the library. We have loved every minute of our return to a more "normal" life (a term used very loosely for us even in the best of times). So far Abby has not gotten sick yet from our outings.


She has a doctors appointment tomorrow. Hopefully her lab work will look great again.

Please pray for:

  • Abby to remain cancer free.
  • continued healthy weight and appetite
  • her gastric tube to be removed
  • her pain to be controlled
  • her to remain free of illnesses
  • wisdom for the doctors, nurses and Brent and I, as we make many decisions about Abby's medical care.
  • Wisdom for Brent and I as we decide on a daily basis how much to let her be out in public.

Thank you so much for praying for my daughter and our family.

Our 16 year old son is going to say a public thank you to his Boy Scout troop at a big meeting tonight, with Abby in his arms. Please pray he would communicate clearly and confidently. Abby is usually gung-ho for doing ANYTHING with Garrett. It will be interesting to see how they do together.

Many people have asked about Abby's hair. Some children are bald for their whole treatment. That would be a very long 2 and a half years. Others regrow hair during the phase Abby is in, only to loose it again.

Abby and I have been staring at the top of her head for a month now. At first I tried to not let Abby see me do it, but the reality is, she thinks about it and brings it up all of the time. She is comfortable with her "little bald head" (her words), her beautiful hats and wigs, but misses her hair. Her and Brent have the "bald head club" and their gang sign is to rub each others head!

Since so many of you are asking and wondering I thought it would be fun to give you a hair update.


Slick as a bowling ball.

The first picture was taken about 3 weeks ago. It was hard to find a hair on her head. There were a few, but they were really light peach fuzz. I LOVED Abby's black hair, so let me tell you, I was praying for it to get darker quickly.


You can see the black hair fuzz
starting to grow back in.

The second picture was taken today. The hairs are obviously very short, but they are sprouting up everywhere. In person it looks like a five o'clock shadow, but you CAN see it and more importantly ABBY can see that her hair is growing in. She is one excited little girl. Every prayer now has to include a thank you for her "porcupines" (her word for her new hair).

Thank you so much for praying for everything, details big and small are such a blessing to be covered in prayer.

The auditorium tonight is dark. I will try to get a decent picture.




Never thought we'd be GLAD to see "attitude"
but we are thrilled to watch Abby regain
her personality and twinkle.

59 comments:

Leslie said...

tooo cute and im loving her hair!!!!!

Hugs,leslie

oneblessedlife said...

AMEN!
FANTASTIC! Thanks for sharing the good news. :) All that healthy eating will help sprout those hairs!! Abby defines beautiful.

aaensons said...

she is a doll and i love the porcupine look. she is a wonderful blessing to your family and your family is a wonderful blessing to her. I am praying for your son and her tonight. I am glad that she is doing well and healthy (you know what I mean)

maria said...

Michelle,
I was so glad to read your post tonight...I am love'n the hair update ( I guess because I'm a hairdresser) and just wanted you to know Cassie Marie (my daughter) and I lift Abby up in prayer every night..we love you guys!

Maria Jeffries (KY)

Kelli said...

Thank you Lord for answered prayers!!!!!!

I am so excited for all of you, especially Abby! Praying that the next two years will go by quickly and as smoothly as possible!

Love y'all!

Kelli Bosarge

Cheryl said...

Praising Him! She is adorable...

Jocelyn said...

It is so good to hear this update on Abby, she looks so spunky in these pictures, I love it!!!!

Ferrick said...

Joy!!! Absolute joy! How this makes my heart smile. All glory and honor to you oh Lord. Susie

Joni In MN said...

HA... LUV that last 'attitude' photo! You go girl! :D I'm so excited for ALL of you but especially for Abby!!! HER willingness to keep has kept me going!!! My first surgery is on Monday morning... This Friday I'll be in IA @ Michael W Smith / SCC Concert!!! :D Thanks Abby for all your smiles! Wahoo!!! I love ya!

The Q family said...

It is SO good to see that twinkle in her eyes! I love your girl! Our prayers will not cease, thank you for specific ways that we can pray for you and her!

LaVon Baker said...

I am crying and Don just keeps saying "Praise the Lord" and I read your post to him. God has an amazing plan for Abby's life.
Grow hair, grow!!!

Robyn said...

I love seeing pics of Abby's beautiful smile!! I'm so glad she's doing well. I am continuing the prayers for her!!

Vickie said...

This was quite possibly the most heartwarming post I have read in a while. It's so good to hear that Abby is running, playing and laughing. She looks adorable with her five o'clock shadow.

Doreen said...

You are BEAUTIFUL ABBY!!! Great pictures.. I am SO VERY HAPPY that your feeling better and able to get out and have fun that you deserve. You have been so strong and brave .. We continue to pray for you every night..BIG HUGS...

Holly said...

Hooray! It is sooo good to hear good news about sweet Abby! God is so good and so faithful. Praying all will continue to be well, and that little girl can have some hair soon!

Janna L. Walters said...

I am thrilled for you all, Praise the Lord. Abby looks so good. May she continue to improve everyday. I do miss you but we will just have to get together on this side of the hospital!
Love you all! Janna
http://waltersfamily.wordpress.com

Gabriel said...

Great to see how well Abby is doing! God is GOOD. :D

Hazel said...

I'm crying tears of joy for Abby! "Z" snap for little miss attitude with that beautiful head of new hair! Good news from my friend whose son HAD Luekemia, and is a survivor. He went for his survivor checkup and he passed with FLYING colors! We are so happy for the Gearharts and for Abby's progress. GOD is good, he answers prayers and he takes care of our little babies! I'm so happy to hear such wonderful news for you all and Abby. Hugs to you all!!!!

Anonymous said...

God is soooooooo good!!! Thank you Lord !!! As i read the update on Abby, it really touched me. Only God !!! That smile and twinkle in her eyes melts your heart, i know that your whole family is so greatful for her getting back to being Abby...i am a stranger, but i love and care for Abby a lot. God will take care of Abby, i firmly believe that with all my heart. I love you Abby ( and i see some black hair trying to come out) YIPEE!!!!! ( I PRAY SHE GETS HER TUBE OUT VERY SOON, AND HER LITTLE BELLY HEALS GOOD, SHE HAS BEEN THROUGH SO MUCH, BLESS HER LITTLE HEART FOR TRYING TO BE SO STRONG.) God Bless your family.

Jman's momma said...

OH MAN!! Rejoicing with you over this post. Praying for continued healing and a cancer free / illness free, beautiful black haired, full of attitude Abby!!!

Stacey said...

I am so glad Abby girl is doing so good. How fun that you have gotten to get out a little bit. That must be good for everyone's peace of mind.
Abby's eyes have always sparkled, but in these pictures they really shine. She is so beautiful.
Continuing to pray in WA,
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Jenny said...

I love the countdown! What a great way for EVERYONE to keep up with Abby! We are praying for her;)

Lisa said...

How lovely! So glad to see Abby's "Porcupine" hair!

Debbie G. said...

Thank you for the update. Our family prays for your family and Abby regularly and we're so excited to see an update on how she's doing. We're praising the Lord with you for a bit of 'normal' in your lives.

Nina said...

Love the update on Abby and her hair! = ) FYI, I'm here for the long haul, I'm not going anywhere. It's an honor to pray for you all, thank you for sharing your Abby (& your entire family!) with us. She's a special little girl. I'll be here to celebrate the small things along the way and look forward to celebrating her total and complete healing! I'll join Abby in thanking Him tonight for her porcupine. = ) It's so wonderful to see her personality beaming through her pictures again! May you all be blessed with sweet rest tonight!

Frank said...

Praising Jesus for the victory, thanking Him for His great love He gives to Abby. Blessings to each and every member of the Riggs' household, only His grace enabled you. YBIC.

Carla said...

Brent and Michelle, what an awesome and encouraging praise filled post! I am so thankful that the Lord has brought all of you so far down this scary road....I pray for continued guidance and peace, for continued healing for sweet Abby and for a full head of long beautiful hair! : )

Lots of great big (((Hugs))) coming your way!

xo,
Carla (http://mastomama.blogspot.com/)

Kristi said...

Praise God! So happy to see the new hair pics!!! :)

Rissa said...

am still praying.. love her "attitude" Picture.. will be praying for good results at the doc appointment tmw.. God bless!

Maggie said...

So glad to hear how well Abby is doing. Can't wait to share with my daughter who prays for Abby every night. God is good!

Anonymous said...

How totally wonderful to see that beautiful smile that Abby has !!! Put that with the attitude and twinkle and it brings tears to my eyes and joy to my heart !

As I read your prayer request for Abby, I lifted each request to God. He has answered so many prayers already and will answer many more.

Love, prayers and heart for you all.

Ann Stegall
Wake Forest, NC

Amy in Arizona said...

So glad to see Abby's hair! I can just imagine that little bit of hair goes a very long way to helping her remember the girl she has always been!! It's good to see her smile!!

Blessed Mom of 8 said...

WOW! WOW! WOW!

GOD IS GOOD ALL OF THE TIME!!!!!

I loved this update and that photo of her let me jus say PRICELESS!!!

Love you all,
Jill

Alex and Sam said...

THIS IS WONDERFUL NEWS!!!!! Heres hoping & praying that each day gets better & better

alex

Carrie S said...

Michelle and family...this is so wonderful to read; Abby has the most precious smile. So glad she is having good days; it has been long over due. Thank you for letting us know specifically what we can pray for and you are all still in our prayers every night.
God bless you and give you continued strength. Your battle has been long.

Anonymous said...

She looks so happy! I am so glad that she is feeling better and remains cancer free!

Kim M said...

How wonderful to see Abby perky again! I'm still praying for her complete healing and that she stays in remission. Also will continue to pray for her protection against germs/infections as she regains some normalcy to her activities. Enjoy your family times and treasure them (probably didn't need to say that to you, but I was thinking about how fast kids grow!)

CindyO. said...

AWESOME!!! Still loving you guys and praying for you daily!!

Joshua's blog and his mom Angie said...

Praise Be To God for Abby's peachie hair that is coming in. Thank you God for Abby and all her brothers and sisters:) Thank you for giving her parents strength to endure. We love you in our hearts Riggs family!! My children ask about Abby all the time:) Praying for healing. Angie from PA

Desert Mom said...

Praying for Abby and your family. God is so good...praising him for his blessings. Abby is beautiful, and I am grinning ear to ear as I note the pose/attitude in the final picture. It reminds me of my healthy 5 year old. What a wonderful sight to see Miss Abby playfully posing! Big hugs for Abby!!

Beth in NC said...

I am so thankful to see that precious smile! Praise God for laughter and play! I wondered if she had a wig ... guessing she does.

I pray her hair grows back thick and beautiful.

God bless you and your family!

precious 3 said...

Thank you for all of the details! My daughter will be happy to hear how Abby is doing. She has been asking about her hair, and how her stomach wound was healing. Praise God for all the good news! I am thanking God today for his protection over Abby, and lifting her up, that He will continue to protect her.

Wow, when I look at that last sentence, I realize how crazy it could sound to others. Protect her? If He protected her, why would she have been battling cancer? But I know He has protected her, or she would have not made it this far. God is carrying her through this. I know you see it too, with her sparkling personality, attitude, appetite, even her hair beginning to return to normal.

We are still praying, and committed to praying till this journey is finished. And as always, I am thanking God for Abby, and her family.

Misty Rice-Baniewicz said...

She is just too precious and too cute with or without hair. Her eyes and smile are so full of life and a happy loved little girl. Thanks for this update today....

It was nice to read that she is in such a good place with this physically. Her little body has been through a lot already.

43 blood transfusions....???? WOW!!!

I use to donate blood ALL the time. I have since high school (way back when) and EVERY YEAR, until about 3 years ago I stopped because I became anemic, (low iron) and I was not longer allowed for awhile. I was told that being so petite that I was limited to what I could give anyways.

I wonder if I can give again now??? I am O+ so I know how much they like to received my blood type.

Ill look into again.... you've just motivated me.

Thank you and God Bless and HAPPY DAY BEAUTIFUL ABBY.

Anonymous said...

Abby is absolutely beautiful!! So thankful for the good report. Don't those big brown eyes just melt your heart!!

Barb L. - Grandma to Jayden, our Guatemalan Blessing
Michigan

Leslie in AR said...

Praise Jesus for the wonderful news about Abby!!! I love the little hair sprigs! We will continue to lift her up in prayer! God, you are SO GOOD!!!

Anonymous said...

TO GOD BE THE GLORY !!!!!!!!!!!!!
ALLELUIA and AMEN !!!!!!!!!!!!!
I am so thankful to see that sparkle in her eyes and that smile on her face.
Like Nina posted...can't get rid of us that easy...here until the end. Please keep up the posting for those of us that are so very interested in Abby and the rest of your family. You have become part of my life as I pray for you daily.
Michelle, will you please send me Abby's, Sami's and Landis' shirt and jacket sizes. I have a little project I would like to do for them. (cheg4me@yahoo.com)
Thank you and God Bless you all.
Again, PRAISE GOD for this miracle and for every little hair.
Ellen Cameron (GA)

The B Family said...

Praise the Lord! Our girls continue to pray for their "little friend Abby" and are going to be thrilled when we show them this post and they learn that she is feeling better and growing in her hair.
God is Good!
Christina

Juliet said...

praying, praying, praying. God is GREAT.

Just Me said...

What a precious update. We will keep Abby in our prayers!

Blessings!

Live to love and laugh said...

Abby,
I am so happy to see that big beautiful smile and 'tude. You are one gorgeous gal.
Cindi

The Thornton Family said...

I'm praying for good hair days from now on! Abby will be swinging her real ponytail before you know it!

Glad she's feeling so good! Keep it up Abby!

Stacey in Missippi

Laurie said...

Amen to everything! :) I am so happy for Abby and how the Lord has answered prayers for you all! Happy Wednesday!

Noah said...

such nice news to read :)

Teri said...

I'm so glad to hear that is Abby is doing SO WELL!! That is HUGE that she was able to go out in public and eat!! My Mom has cancer and has resigned eating out almost all together because it can be dangerous. THANK YOU, GOD! What a blessing. :) Thanks for the good news. It brought a smile to my face. I love the "attitude" picture of Abby. She is adorable!

nikki said...

Yipppeee I see her peach fuzz growing!!!!
Continued prayers for Abby and your family as you go through this maitence phase.
So happy to read that Abby can go out and do normal kid things!!

Anonymous said...

I guess we could use the God is Great Blessing for something other than food.
We could say:
God is Great
God is Good
Let us than Him for this "Abbytude"!

EC

The Gobble's (Lanetta) said...

oh my stars.. this post made me cry!! Thank you Lord!!! Abby's hair is looking GREAT... and Garret tonight... (well, that was the main point when the tears started!) So awesome!! What a great brother!!!!
We are still praying....
Many blessings,
Lanetta

sierrasmom said...

On a day when I visited for the last time a dear friend dying of cancer, your news about Abby brings me great joy and peace. Art had fought his brain tumors gallantly for 11 years and had many wonderful moments during that time. I will continue to pray for Abby. She IS a special little girl!!!!
Kathie in NY

Anonymous said...

Oh, this is wonderful! When my mother went through her chemo, her doctors told her that her hair would not grow back, and she was terribly disappointed. She started a ritual of massaging baby oil into her scalp to alleviate some of the scalp dryness, and low and behold her hair grew back thick and lovely. Her doctors thought that the massaging might have been stimulating the hair follicles and helping with the hair growth! Just a thought!

Keep up the great fight, Abby!