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Apr 29, 2009

Abby Update & Wedding Dresses

Thank you so much for praying for us today. We are finally home after a very full day.

The tests went well. Some of the results were not what we hoped for, but overall it was a good day. Abby was well sedated for the procedures. After the months of enduring painful tests, we are thankful she was comfortable. I was with her the whole time. She was still, didn't appear to be in any pain and doesn't even remember the procedure. Praise God!

There were NO cancer cells were found in her bone marrow or spinal fluid!

Brent and I were very relieved to hear Abby is still in remission. Brent and I will never forget how we felt in July when Abby was first diagnosed with cancer. To hear that Abby continues to respond to the chemo is a precious gift. Every day is treasured. Every hug, every kiss and every single smile is a blessing from God.

The news we weren't expecting is that Abby's immune system is VERY low. Their goal is for her to have an ANC of 1200-1500 (number that represents her immune system). A normal ANC for you and I is much higher than that. . Abby's ANC is 104. They went ahead and gave her IV chemo and chemo in her spinal fluid because those chemos don't work to lower her white blood cell count. They decided TO HOLD the daily chemo I usually give her every night. They hope we can give it to her again in a week or two, but won't restart it until her immune system working better.

Because of her low counts, we are back to being stuck at home. Abby can't eat raw fruits and vegetables (a HUGE deal for Abby, because they are her VERY favorite foods) and we are keeping everything as germ free as we can. When her ANC has been this low in the past, she ended up in the hospital with mucositis and infections. Even though Abby's g-tube has been removed, her doctor believes that the bacteria that caused the infection is still present in amounts that can hurt her when her ANC is low. We are praying she begins to recover quickly and can avoid hospitilization.

Brent and I are beyond thankful Abby's cancer is in remission. Abby is only 4 years old. She is sad that she is not able to go places and be with her friends. Mommy and Daddy know this will pass in a few weeks, but to Abby a few weeks seems like forever.

Please continue to pray for Abby's healing. Please also pray for that Abby would remain home and infection/complication free.

I would also love for you to pray that I can make this time fun for the kids, so the time will pass more quickly for her. I know for most of you spending a couple of weeks at home doesn't sound like a big deal but to our children (who have been either homebound or at the hospital for most of the last 10 months) it is difficult.


Sami and Abby love to play dress up. Here they have on
a combination of Ethiopian dresses, ballerina and wedding costumes.
I mean c'mon folks, I know they are our kids but puh-leeze...
aren't they just the cutest, most adorable little girls?

51 comments:

Amy B said...

Cute is not the words..they are beautiful...just like their mama.
You need to frame that picture, it is so pretty.
I sent you a email earlier. Just checking on you.
Try to get some rest tonight.it has been a long day for both you and Abby.
Thinking of you my friend..
Hugs

Kristine said...

I am VERY happy to hear that there was no cancer! Wow, that word is even hard to type. So scary.

I'm praying for her immune system to replenish itself quickly.

Wish I lived closer and could you both out. Cause I WOULD! :)

Rachel said...

I am so glad to hear about Abby's progress. I will pray that her immune system will go back up and she will not have any further infections or hospital stays.

Yes, they are the cutest and are simply adorable!

Bubba&SistersMom said...

Oh my goodness...they are (almost) the cutest things ever...running a close 2nd to my two favorite kiddos who just happen to be...my two kiddos. Lovin' that Sami even has the gloves!! Yahhh on no cancer cells found..boo to the low immune system. Enjoy your time at home together...and prayers for a speedy recovery and a fun filled summer.

kelliebean said...

Those are 2 of the 4 most beautiful girls I've ever seen (the other 2 being my girls, of course)! :)

Blessed Mom of 8 said...

I can't think of better news to receive today or pictures to enjoy!

They are beyond precious! The dress from Ethiopia is beautiful!

Sami is so pretty!

I love Abby's smile - it warms my heart so much to see it every time!

I praise God for how well she is doing and will be in constant prayer for her WBC's to go up quickly to ensure healing from the inside out!

Hugs and much love,
Jill

Terri said...

I'm so happy for you all!!!
The girls looks so cute all dressed up!

noraanne@sbcglobal.net said...

Absolutely beautiful, adorable girls! I'll keep you all in prayer.

Kelli said...

They totally are! :D

Stacy said...

they are absolutely beautiful (and this is the mama of another beautiful Ethiopian girl). Sorry to hear that Abby has to stay home for awhile I hope that you find something fun to do. My daughter is 4 as well and being social feeds her soul, I know that it would be very hard on her to have to stay home.

Suzanne said...

Beautiful girls!!! Praise the Lord Abby is still in remission...wonderful words to us parents whose children have cancer. My Philip has been off the oral chemo several times in maintenance for low counts. I know it's hard to take that news and keep our little ones safe from germs. Praying Abby's ANC rises quickly and NO infections!!!

A fellow cancer Mom

Anonymous said...

Oh my gosh, they are SOO beautiful, and enjoy every day, because time will fly and soon they will truly be wearing wedding dresses!

Lynn

Beth said...

Yes,they are both absolutely beautiful!!

nikki said...

Yippppee for a clear spinal tap and being cancer free!!!
But I know it really stinks to have to be homebound for so long here is a great kids craft site.
http://www.dltk-kids.com/

Hope doing some crafts can help pass the time.
Praying that God will keep Abby germ free.

Becky said...

PRAISE GOD for no cancer cells! I've been praying for that news since your Tweets this morning.

We will pray that Abby's ANC recovers quickly and that your time at home is as enjoyable as possible. And yes, those are two gorgeous girls :-)

Colbert Family said...

Praise God that she continues to be in remission and cancer free! I thought about you guys all day and prayed often and I will sleep better knowing the good news. Will be praying for her ANC to come up quickly with no issues while you wait....

Colbert Family said...

One more thing.... the girls look absolutely adorable!!!

Jocelyn said...

That picture is adorable!! Yay for such great news today for Abby!!

Just'N Angel said...

They ARE precious and adorable! I know that keeping a four year old inside for one day is difficult, but for weeks! I will pray that you will find fun things to do and that Abby will continue to get stronger and stronger. I am so glad to hear that she is still in remission.

Liz said...

Wow...Abby's hair is really starting to grow back. I am sure that makes her happy.

I will pray that God removes whatever is in her body that is keeping her ANC number so low.

God Bless

Tina:0) said...

Yay for NO cancer cells!! Boo for the ANC of 104:0( Praying that it climbs so that you're able to get out & about.

As for the "most adorable little girls?" - next to mine, I'd have to agree (LoL- I'm a Momma, so I'm biased toward my girls first:0))They look stunning in their wardrobes!

XOXO

Rebekah said...

They are very sweet. I am glad the older one still likes to dress up with the little one. My older girls are not doing that anymore and I miss it. :(

Jennifer said...

They are adorable and Abby looks healthy and strong! What a gorgeous smile! Praise God for no cancer! I'll pray for continued healing in her body so her immune system can get back to normal.

Vickie said...

Oh my goodness! Those are some beautiful children!

Holly said...

Yep...the most adorable little girls!!!

I am so happy that sweet Abby is still cancer free!!!!!!!!

as written by Barbara said...

Yes indeed they are adorably beautiful!!!
Humph to the white cell count. Praying you won't be home-bound too long.
Hugs,
Barbara Lyman :-)
Marysville, WA

Joni In MN said...

Oh those two are BEE U T FUL!!!
I absolutely LUV this photo :) and believe it or not Sami's flowers are the same color I had made for my wedding many yrs ago :D I LUV Royal Blue & White!

Please give Abby big hug... let her know that she's in my thoughts & prays. I know, I know, it's harder for a child but it's better to be stuck at home then in a hospital room ;)

Maybe she'd be interested in learning Graphic Design or Photography or something on computer w/Daddy? Makes time go by faster :)

Hugs to All of You from MN,
~Sweet Joni

Leslie said...

THEY ARE just precious!!!!!! Im soo glad abby is feeling better..still praying!

hugs,leslie

Jennifer said...

I am so happy that Abby got good news! I know the next few weeks will be tough...Will be praying for you!


Jen

Danita said...

Abby continues to be on my prayers!

Beautiful photo!

Rebekah said...

Gorgous, sweet, amazing, adorable and precious!

Missew said...

I am so happy to read that Abby remains in remission. Praise Jesus! The girls look adorable in their dresses!

Anonymous said...

Praise our wonderful and awesome God !!! This news is Heaven sent and such a relief to hear.

Will pray for Abby that it won't be long before she can go places and eat fresh fruit and vegetables. The time will pass quickly and knowing you all, you will make it a fun time of family being together.

Yes, Sami and Abby look fantastic in their dress-up clothes. You can see Abby's hair growing back as the white really sets off her dark hair. Sami has been such a blessing to Abby.

About 15 years ago I gave each set of my grandkids a huge dress-up container filled with stuff I had bought at yards sales and 75% off sales. They are still using a lot of the stuff to put on plays, etc.

Will continue to keep you in our hearts and prayers.

Ann Stegall
Wake Forest, NC

Rachel E. said...

The girls are so beautiful! And what awesome news that Abby continues to be in remission!

Queen Mumma said...

Beautiful!! Glad some of the news of Abby was good.

Melissa said...

Hey there. Do you guys utilize Parents As Teachers? We did this with our older kids when they were toddlers and preschool age. An educator would come to the house and bring age appropriate crafts and activities to do with our kiddos. Now, I realize you may only be stuck at home for a couple of weeks, but even if she could come for just one day it would at least fill up one morning with something different to do. The only thing is I'm not sure if you are wanting visitors due to her low ANC. Anyway, it's just a thought. Of course, after her ANC is normal you can still use Parents As Teachers. My kids really enjoyed it (and so did I). Also, maybe you can find a Kindermusik or Musikgarten (yes, it's really spelled like that LOL) teacher locally who would be willing to come to your home and do a class just for your kiddos. It's not the norm for them, but if they know the situation they might be willing. I know you're super busy and trying to plan a bunch of stuff is overwhelming, but I just thought I'd throw a couple of ideas out there for you. Parents as Teachers is free btw and I bet knowing your situation the other

Victoria Strong said...

They are beautiful!

Robyn said...

I am continuing the prayers for Abby and your entire family!!

Sarah said...

That is the most adorable photo I've seen in a long time! Abby and Sami look like they're having a lot of fun. :)

We'll keep praying for Abby's immune system and for fun ways for y'all to pass the time at home.

Alex and Sam said...

no cancer... WOOHOOO praying for abby's immune system to build itself up real soon... the pic of the girls in priceless..

alex

Carrie S said...

So SO GREAT to hear she is still cancer free..we pray her immune system perks back up soon. The girls are so beautiful! Prayers, strength, laughter, and hugs to you all.

The Thornton Family said...

Oh. My. Goodness.
Precious!

Glad to hear you got some good news, and praying that Abby is able to go out and about soon.

Stacey in missippi

Michelle said...

WOOHOO!! for NO CANCER! We are very happy to hear your good news! We will pray for Abby as we have done daily since last July! Being in Alaska, and having it below zero for most of the winter, we can certainly understand being "trapped" in the house!
With Love,
Michelle Mann
Alaska

Anonymous said...

They are beautiful!!! I am so glad Abby has Sami (and Sami has Abby)you can see how much they love each other.I can also see dark hair on that little head, she is so precious, will still be praying for Dear Abby. God is soooooo good.

heatherkmd said...

CONGRATS on the book! Awesome news about NO cancer cells being found. And, yes, the girls are gorgeous! I will pray that the weeks at home are full of fun, rest, and pass quickly for Abby!
Heather

Joshua's blog and his mom Angie said...

PTL!!!

Your daughters look like little Angels :)

darci said...

yes your girls are BEAUTIFUL! and NO cancer cells, praise the Lord! whoohoohoo!! Will be praying for these weeks to fly, be nice weather so the kids can be outside, etc.

harmonysong said...

Don't know how I missed this post! WAHOO for remission!! :) Will be praying for Abby's immune system!

LOVE LOVE the wedding dresses picture! Precious!

Kritter Krit said...

Oh, they're beautiful! That shot's a framer, for sure.

Praise the Lord for no cancer, that's wonderful news!! Will be praying for Abby's immune system, and that she'll be able to enjoy fruits and veggies again SOON.

Netta said...

How precious! Praying for your many Blessings!

4 Little Men and Girly Twins said...

beautiful girls!!!

britt